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I’ve Found My Soul Mate

Friday, June 27th, 2008

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He’s said Michael Jackson is a freak and the Mafia should be running the goverment!

I’ve finally found someone who thinks like me.
Case De Ice is fine dining with an opinionated edge.
If your driving down RT 30 in North Versailles, PA you may find yourself gearing off the road because you read one of Bill Balsamico’s famous quotes.
Casa De Ice got its name on it, and in case you did not know the owner of this western PA bar has been bringing a smile to commuter’s faces for years. Jay Leno will be asking him as guest soon ; if he has not been on his show already!

Bill Balsamico’s signs have been getting great reviews and he has been putting up his opinions since 911.

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Conclusion Of Geraldo At Large

Monday, June 23rd, 2008

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By the time my makeup was done I was ready to go home. My nerves were starting to get the best of me. I tried to pry my lips apart but my teeth seemed to get in the way. I needed water; my mouth felt like the sahara desert. Me and Jon were seated in two blue chairs; a picture of Pittsburgh stood behind us, the studio was poorly lit and the scene badly mimicked the city, the too posed backdrop looked fake and unnatural.

I occasionally joked with the camera man to pass the time asking unserious questions such as, if he had a skinny camera like the one Oprah has. Then the camera man placed an ear piece in my ear. The sound crew’s voice back in New York was hardly audible in my ear. Then the camera man placed a small black microphone on my blouse. We practiced counting to five, Jon first than me. My ear piece was not working properly so I was given another one. I did a sound test again. My sound piece failed. Jon’s passed and unfortunately I was given a third one to try. They say threes a charm but not in this case. I still could not hear the sound man back in New York.

We were given the ok from New York- two minutes to broadcast. Then I heard the camera man say “What Louie, the satellite is down.” To some that is no big deal but for me and Jon it was a big deal. You see- my brother Louie died four years ago and he has sent signs from beyond the grave before. This was surely another sign! And to make this a little more eerie he has a star in his name in space! My first thought was let’s get the hell out of here! But I froze and just sat there dumbfounded for about five minutes and then without warning the camera man said,”Were live!”

To made matters worse I still could not hear Geraldo and I sat with a stupid confused look on my face. I had no idea what I said until I saw the footage of myself when I got home.

Geraldo never asked how he heard of our story; he made my son look like he was in trouble. The psychologist and the judge who were also on the show took my words right out of my mouth, and said exactly what was in my blog and what I told his producers.

As soon as I walked out into the lobby my son Mark and his girlfriend were laughing and said I looked like I was pissed off. I was pissed off and I was disappointed. The whole drive home all I could think of was what just happened. I never noticed that the driver was weaving in and out of lanes!

The purpose of us going on Geraldo’s show was to inform parents the dangers a camera cell phone can bring. That was my understanding as to why we were asked on the show. I left disappointed ; I felt used by Geraldo and his producers. I felt that he took advantage of my son. The whole segment looked liked Jon was in trouble when in fact he was just telling what was sent to him on his cell , as Geraldo would say– by some little tramps! The good thing that came out of this was someone read my blog and it got someones attention! When Jon goes back to school and the teacher asks, “Did anyone do any thing interesting this summer,” Jon has something to talk about!

It was a learning experience good and bad for me and Jon; hopefully not our only five minutes of fame but the beginning.

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Geraldo At Large Part 3

Wednesday, June 18th, 2008

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Part 3

On Saturday night I asked Jon if he was prepared for the interview with Geraldo. It’s a good thing. When he told me what he was going to say I almost choked from laughing. He said in a serious tone, “Well Jeraldo,” JON the “G” is silent. We both had a laughing gag for about a half hour. That moment would come back to haunt me during the interview!

Wow, getting ready to be on national television is stressful, now I know how Katie Couric feels. Geraldo’s producer Joey Wannat called to let me the car was going to be at my home at about 8:45 and of course he was early. And it was not an SUV for all of my people! Oh no who was going to be pick to come and who was going to be left behind even though it was a Lincoln Town Car it was small inside.

My long time friend Gina Ferri and her daughter was the most likely to stay behind. I could not very well leave my son Mark and his girlfriend Sam behind when my son’s life has become what my blog is basically about.

But Geraldo’s producer came through and had a car pick Gina and Alexia up. The ride down town Pittsburgh was crazy. The driver must have stopped and helped himself to a few too many before he picked us up because my cat could have driven better.

We finally got to the studio on 11 and Stanwix Street. We got the royal treatment escorted in the studio by the driver; my guests were seated in the green room, and I and Jon were taken to makeup. The lights were so bright showing every shadow and wrinkle!

The make-up artist must have thought I was an extra in a re-make of “Night of the Living Dead”. I thought I had way too much make-up on. Then she made my hair look like an old lady! She teased it! I longer was but the mama on “Hair Spray”. Jon looked like Dracula not much better than me.
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Tomorrow: Down went the Satellite

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Geraldo At Large Part 2

Tuesday, June 17th, 2008

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Part 2
We were supposed to be on Geraldo on Saturday night, but due to the sudden death of Tim Russert we were pushed back until Sunday. As fate would have it Geraldo by chance was in Pittsburgh Saturday evening, but we were not; his plane to New York was diverted to Pittsburgh International because of bad weather. It would have been so cool to actually meet Geraldo in person.

I remember watching his talk show years ago and really admiring his bold interviewing tactics. I would have liked to asked him about what really happened to Al Capone’s vault and all the money! One of my favorite interviews he did was when he really gave it to Charles Manson!

So Sunday it was- at least it gave me an extra day to de-bloat. I wish I would have known a year ago that I was going to be on national television; I would have fasted all year!!! The camera packs on an extra 10 pounds so in my case it was 20 ok 30!

I made sure I asked the producers what Geraldo was going to ask me so I would be prepared, unfortunately the one question I thought he was going to ask was not even mentioned; all my rehearsing down the drain- along with my hair I pulled out after the show.

It was exciting. My blog was going to get me recognition as a writer, and people were reading what I had to say.

Sunday evening Geraldo’s producers were going to send an SUV to take me , my son and my entourage to Pittsburgh to a Fox’s studio.

Tommorrow: Pittsburgh Videotech

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Geraldo At Large Part 1

Monday, June 16th, 2008

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This is going to be a three part series on my experience dealing with the Fox news giant. This national oportunity could have given my blog credit and recognition and a chance to give my viewpoint, but that is not always the case when dealing with the media. This was my first let down in my pursuit to inform the public and I’m sure it will not be the last. One good thing, hopefully it will inform parents of the dangers their child may face when texting pornography via their cell phones. This is a danger that may haunt their children’s lives forever.

Let’s start off by saying how the producers Dominic Camia and Joey Wannat of Geraldo At Large heard of me and my son. It all started back in April when I posted a blog about female teens in my area texting nude photos of themselves.

Two weeks ago I received a phone call from Debra Todd a reporter from the Post Gazette in Pittsburgh PA. She had read my blog and wanted to do a story on teens and texting. I thought it was great idea. I gave her my information on the subject that I posted and my son spoke with her and gave his side of the story on the subject.

The article was published a few weeks ago; I then posted it on my blog for my readers . Friday June 12, 08, I received a phone call from Fox in New York. My first reaction was it must be a prank call. After a number of creditional checking calls I was convinced it was legit. It’s not everyday I get a phone call from a national television show.

My next step was to discuss it with my family; I did not want anyone to feel uncomfortable about the proposal. It was a welcome invite for my son Jon. Why wouldn’t a teenager want to be on a national tv show- how cool is that? After a number of confirmation calls between me and the producers of Geraldo At Large the plans were in motion.

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Tomorrow preparing for national television.
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Will Hillary Join Obama

Friday, June 6th, 2008

Sorry Hillary I think Obama has chosen his running mate!

Hillary may be out of the race for the white house, but that may not be the end of the road for her.
Will she join forces with Obama?
Even though I am against Obama in the white house I would had rather have seen Hillary as the commander in chief :(.
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Here is the re-blog that was mentioned in June 5, 2008 Pittsburgh Post Gazettehttp://www.post-gazette.com/pg/08157/887282-54.stm

Jan. 16, 08
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The latest craze in high school’s across America; texting nude photos and passing them out to their friends’ via a camera cell phone.

Boy oh boy Penn Trafford girls did it again! It was not too long ago when there was a big scandal on prom night with naked out of control seniors with their “girl’s gone wild video tapes.”

Their at it again, but their choice of mass communication is not a camcorder but a cell phone. This was the topic of debate in my home yesterday evening. The whole gang (kids) were passing their cell phones around showing bare skinned high school girl’s photos. Let’s just say they were not G rated.

The mother in me wanted to pick the phone up and call the lovely model’s parent and let them know that their daughter’s flesh was being texted from one high school boy’s phone to another, and to students in and around area school district’s to see.

The following day my son told me that one of the girls’ in one photo said she was famous now. Thanks Lindsay Lohan and Britney Spears. No wonder why tween’s are locking their phones from wandering parent’s eyes. The day my son or daughter locked their phone from me would be the day I took the phone and threw in the garbage.

I don’t remember this type of behavior going on when I was in high school; I realize it was 20 some years ago- we did not even come close. Sure we did some dumb things like most kids’ but naked photos!Has technologoy killed society’s morals. Technology is a wonderful tool, but if abused it can lead to laws been broken, and lives devastated.

I’m sure Satan loves this type of behavior; he is grinning with pleasure at the site of these kids gone wild! It reminds me of Saturday Night Live’s “Church Lady”. What would she think!! I chuckle at the thought.
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Howard Stern would love to hear about this one also!

But in all honesty, it’s nothing to joke about. It saddens me to think– these poor girls’ thought they were sending the picture to their boyfriends’…. They have such little self worth and low self-esteem; they think by doing these types of things it will make the boys like them.

Kids only care about the present, and they don’t realize that these photo’s can come back to haunt them later in life. This can happen when they apply to colleges’ and enter the work force. They don’t realize the ramifications that these photos’ can bring, and they are not aware of the consequences.

“One word of advice I have for all the insecure girls’ out there-if you don’t want anyone else’s eyes to see the pictures don’t send them out in the first place.”

Don’t ever do anything you would not want your mother or father to see, because it will come back to haunt you someday.

My grandfathers favorite saying was, “A stiff cock has no conscious.”

You never know who may be looking at your pictures.

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Public Knowledge

Wednesday, June 4th, 2008

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Live in Pennsylvania? Wonder why you did not get that wonderful job, or were you let go without notice, maybe you suddenly got dumped by your girlfriend or boyfriend. It could be because your past discretions are on the web.

Yes, your traffic tickets or your misbehaving college antics could be posted on the web for your future, current or dream job employer’s eyes to see.

What if your future in-law’s saw your criminal records! Protect your indiscretions.

Everything you ever did that broke the law is on the Pennsylvania Judicial Systems web page. You don’t need to pay one of those online back ground check sites to find out personal information about your prospective better half.

All you do is enter a name, and county and each criminal offense is listed. There is hope in having it removed. You must go to your local court house and have it expunged.

Don’t live in PA check your local court house or judicial system see if your past is on the web.

Determined

Tuesday, June 3rd, 2008

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A mother’s worst fear-her teenage son tells her he is getting the car he wants and it’s not a mini van. I tried to sway him into getting a car that is more practical and safe but he would not have it. I practically gave him my car.

I told him I would pay for his car if he let me pick it out; sure an 18 year old wants his 45 year old mother to pick out his car. Why not a bigger midsize car, or an SUV that’s good on gas, I’m sure there is one out there. I would like to see him in a truck, or a tank would be my pick. I just want him to be safe. There has to be a safer car than the one he had his heart set on.

I lost the battle! My driveway has a new tenant and it’s red and tiny! There is no denying he needs a car to get to school, but a sports car? And it’s a stick! I guess I won’t be borrowing his car any time soon!

Talk about being a total jerk!

I suppose I’ll have to live with it, “But mom it has good crash test results.”

Sorry kid, it does not make me feel any better, even after I had my priest from church bless his new car,
I still get a twinge in my gut looking at it.

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