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My Sister

Friday, August 29th, 2008

I Will never be able to say I’m sorry for all the disagreements we had.

I will never be able to say how much she meant to me.

I will never be able to call her when I have a problem.

I will never be able to lend her a piece of jewelry.

I will never be able to wear her hammy downs.

I will never be able to yell at her when she makes me mad.

I will never be able to laugh with her or cry with her again.

I will never be able to…

I will never hear her crazy laugh and phobia’s again.

My big, nutty, sister is gone; she left to be with my big brother…

All is left, is her memory and beautiful children.

My sister Mary was my sparring
partner, even though drove me crazy
with her insecurities was always there
for me and my boys.

She held my hand when my husband
left, she walked with when my sister
was ill, she cried with me when my
brother died.

Yes, we were not always the best of friends, but deep down we loved each
other dearly… We fought like cats, and dogs, but when either one of us were
in trouble we would be there. But unfortunately I was not there when she
needed me the most.

She died only two days ago.
I never knew she was ill until only a fews day ago. AML Leukemia struck her down in three days.

“If I died tomorrow what would you say today?”

Returning Penn Trafford High School Student Will Find More Than Hot August Air.

Wednesday, August 6th, 2008

The heat is on but not the roof.

Pt high school contruction will continue on come the start of school August 25th.  They have not put a dent in the construction.

 

“We’re at the mercy of weather,” said Harry Smith according to Penn Trafford News. What weather it has not rained in days . There is no excuse for the roof not being done. The cafeteria is also behind schedule. Smith added he does not see any of the projects creating any major problems for the first day of school!! Who is he kidding?  Before school ended in June the tar smell was uncalled for.

What can the kids expect later this month; more mess, no lockers, a bunch of stink and a lot of hot air!

 

Back Yard Camping

Sunday, August 3rd, 2008

Just because summer is just about over doesn’t mean it’s time to go indoors. Autumn is a wonderful time to enjoy nature’s crimson, amber, and gold painted tapestry. The wind is gentle, and the evening sky is the blackest. The night sky is speckled with bright diamonds that decorate the vast heavens above.
It’s an amazing sight especially if you’re lying down in a sleeping bag looking up. With gas prices so high why not try back yard camping. It’s safe, fun and easy…

All you have to do is find a perfect spot; it may be under a tree, or by a pond.
Just remember before you pitch up the tent it’s a lot easier to move the tent than the fire ring.
Make a check list of all things you will need. A tent is the most important thing to get first if you don’t already have one. You must make sure its waterproof. There is nothing worse than a soaky tent. Keep in mind autumn can get pretty chilly at night, so a well insulated sleeping bag is a must. Coleman is a great brand.
Every camp ground needs a campfire. If you don’t have a fire ring you can either make one with blocks, or stones or buy fire pit at Target.

Things you will need to buy :
Bug spray
fire starter
Hot Chocó
Sleeping bag
Extra blankets
Pillow
Lantern
Candles
Card Table
Ghost stories
Flash lights
First Aid Box
Wood

Great Snacks
Smores(graham crackers
Hershey chocolate bars
Marshmallow
Trail Mix
White Trash
(Five cups different favorite cereal. chex, peanut butter captain crunch, cheerio).
M&m’s
Mini marshmallows
Broken pretzels
2 bags of white chocolate
Mix
Hot Dogs (roasted on an open fire
Buns
Chips
Most important good company!

Some of you may want to get an extension cord and bring out a television and DVD player and watch a scary movie…. But I think its best not to but my kids always like to watch a movie outside like at a drive inn.

Two Kittens In A Red Bucket

Friday, August 1st, 2008

July 31, 2008

July 31, 2008

I remember always being around puppies, or kittens when I was growing up. I treasure these childhood memories more than anything. And I took my love of animals with me into my adulthood and now my sons have the same love.  

A bond between a pet will last a lifetime . I favored kittens the most in my life ever since I was a small child.  I blame that partly on my father because almost every other week my father would bring a new kitten home to me.  We would lose them either by being  hit by a car or they would find a Tom cat and run off .  Our home was never without one of these small creatures.

 God created pets to give us pleasure- they are a gift -to love and care for… And it’s our responsibility to take care of lost and abandoned kittens and especially if they are found on our property.

 I cared for an abandoned kitten over eight years ago and he is still a big part of my family. 

 Yesterday my mother called me to let me know my brother disrupted two kittens from their nest.  My mother knowing how much I loved kittens and cats knew I would go to their rescue. I stopped what I was doing , which was coloring my hair ; I grabbed my car keys and raced over to my brothers property. When I got there hair color dripped down my face as I rushed over to where the kittens were. The kittens were snuggled up against the other in a red bucket.

 They could not have been more than a week old their eyes not even open yet. My first impulse was to take them home because my gut knew neither my brother or his wife would know how to care for these young kittens.

 Not many people love animals as much as I do, or have the stomach for the endless hours feeding them and caring for them without no reward accept the pleasure of hearing them purr.

  I was ready to take these kittens home and care for them., at  least until they were old enough to be adopted.

 My brother hurriedly said his wife was out buying the kittens formula and bottles to feed them and she was going to take them.  At first I wanted to chuckle she was going to take them someone who has never cared for an animal in her life. I thought to myself it would be a great experience for their three children to care for these kittens.  I know my kids will never forget caring for our abandoned kitten Dusty, now a plump adult cat whose losing his front teeth.

 Thank Goodness my brother and his wife was going to take care of these kittens especially when I heard one of his workers chased the mother away. A fero cat rarely will come back and take care of  their kitten once a human scent is on them.

 They would die left outside unprotected without their mother.

 I actually could not sleep well last night because I was worried about these two kittens.

 Early this morning I went out and looked for the kittens because I was told my brothers wife decided she did not want anything to do with them, if I would have known this I would have gone back and taken them home.

 I searched where my brothers said they were- all I saw was the red bucket he put them in, but it was hanging upside down from a wooden pole.

 When I finally spoke with him this morning he said he went back out to find the kittens, and he found one of the kitten mulled and dead and the other was no where to be found.

 I felt sick to my stomach.

If I would have known then what I know now I would have grabbed the red bucket and ran with it.

 I plead with property owners everywhere- if you find a kitten, or a wounded, abandon animal don’t leave it in the elements unprotected.  It’s your responsibility as a property owner  to take the animal to the humane society, at least to a vet, or animal shelter if not yourself.

 A nursing cat would have adopted those two kittens and they may have brought hours of joy to a family somewhere now that will never happen.

 

All they had to do if they did not want to care for the innocent kittens was to have called me I would have gladly taken care of them. It saddens me to think they would jump at the chance to go on a shopping trip to the mall, dinner at a local restaurant, a birthday party, or even a  baseball game and a drive to our local humane society was too much of a hassel.

They would not have blinked an eye, but for two little kittens they just brushed it away like dried leaves on their front steps on an Autumn day -they did not even give them a chance.

 If I were a superstitious person I would worry about what kind of Karma this would bring to their property. It’s a good thing I’m not superstitious. 

 

I applaud anyone who finds an abandoned kitten and saves its life. You are a few of the angels God has made to protect these innocent creatures.

 

Re: It’s bad Luck to Kill a Cat

Posted by masakim on February 07, 2003

In Reply to: Bad luck to kill a cat posted by ESC on February 07, 2003

: There was a recent discussion here about cats having nine lives. Here’s an interesting twist.

: “Aunt Nola always said it was bad luck to kill a cat, and then explained why. It is because cats have nine lives and, if they live those nine lives out naturally, everything is alright, but if people killed a cat, the remainder of its nine lives would be lived out as a witch. The witch then would be throwing all kinds of bad luck to the cat-killer’s way. That, she said, is the reason witches have cats with them. No matter what color a cat is, she said it turns black after it is killed and starts living the rest of its life as a witch.” From “Aunt Nola was Always an Expert When It Came to Witches” by McCreary Roberts, Kentucky Explorer magazine, Volume 17, Number 8, February 2003. The article by Mr. Roberts, a Breathitt County, Kentucky, educator and newspaper columnist, was written in 1984.

W. Baldwyn wrote in 1546:
A Cat hath nine lives, that is to say, a witch may take on her.

 

 

 

New Jersey Angry White Woman

Friday, August 1st, 2008

 

I recieved this in a personal email and I thought it was worth posting!

What do you think?

Letter from one Angry Woman’
I don’t know who wrote it but they should have
signed it. Some powerful words. This woman should run for president.

Written by a housewife from New Jersey and sounds
like it! This is one ticked off lady.
‘Are we fighting a war on terror or aren’t we? Was
it or was it not started by Islamic people who brought it to our shores on
September 11, 2001?

Were people from all over the world, mostly
Americans, not brutally murdered that day, in downtown Manhattan , across
the Potomac from our nation’s capitol and in a field in Pennsylvania ?
Did nearly three thousand men, women and children
die a horrible, burning or crushing death that day, or didn’t they?

And I’m supposed to care that a copy of the Koran
was ‘desecrated’ when an overworked American soldier kicked it or got it
wet?…Well, I don’t. I don’t care at all.

I’ll start caring when Osama bin Laden turns himself
in and repents for incinerating all those innocent people on 9/11.

I’ll care about the Koran when the fanatics in the
Middle East start caring about the Holy Bible, the mere possession of which
is a crime in Saudi Arabia

I’ll care when these thugs tell the world they are
sorry for chopping off Nick Berg’s head while Berg screamed through his
gurgling slashed throat.

I’ll care when the cowardly so-called ‘insurgents’
in Iraq come out and fight like men instead of disrespecting their own
religion by hiding in mosques.
I’ll care when the mindless zealots who blow
themselves up in search of nirvana care about the innocent children within
range of their suicide .
I’ll care when the American media stops pretending
that their First Amendment liberties are somehow derived from international
law instead of the United States Constitution’s Bill of Rights.

In the meantime, when I hear a story about a brave
marine roughing up an Iraqi terrorist to obtain information, know this: I
don’t care.

When I see a fuzzy photo of a pile of naked Iraqi
prisoners who have been humiliated in what amounts to a college-hazing
incident, rest assured: I don’t care.

When I see a wounded terrorist get shot in the head
when he is told not to move because he might be booby-trapped, you can take
it to the bank: I don’t care…

When I hear that a prisoner, who was issued a Koran
and a prayer mat, and fed ’special’ food that is paid for by my tax dollars,
is complaining that his holy book is being ‘mishandled,’ you can absolutely
believe in your heart of hearts: I don’t care.
And oh, by the way, I’ve noticed that sometimes it’s
spelled ‘Koran’ and other times ‘Quran.’ Well, Jimmy Crack Corn and-you
guessed it-I don’t care !!

‘Some people spend an entire lifetime wondering if
they made a difference in the world. But, the Marines don’t have that

‘If we ever forget that we’re One Nation Under God,
then we will be a nation gone under.’ Also by.. Ronald Reagan

One last thought for the day:

In case we find our selves starting to believe all
the Anti-American sentiment and negativity, we should remember England ’s
Prime Minister Tony Blair’s words during a recent interview. When asked by
one of his Parliament members why he believes so much in America , he said:
‘A simple way to take measure of a country is to look at how many want in..
And how many want out.’

Only two defining forces have ever offered to die
for you:

1. Jesus Christ
2. The American G. I.
One died for your soul, the other for your freedom.

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