Big Boobs
From “Women Have Boobs — Get Over It” By Samara Ginsberg:
I liked my breasts when they first appeared. I was a 28A for a long time and, while I felt a little self-conscious about these new additions to my physique simply by virtue of the fact that most other 12-year-olds didn’t yet have any at all, I liked them. They were small and perky, in proportion with the rest of me and didn’t get me any unwanted attention.
All of this changed virtually overnight when I was 14. In the space of about three months, I went from an A to an E cup. The way I was treated by people I knew and by strangers completely changed.
They weren’t good changes either. Here is just some of what the poor girl had to deal with:
- My peers began to see me as “slutty,” despite the fact that I had never even kissed a boy.
- The bitchy, popular clique of girls at school tried to recruit me, not seeming to understand why I had little interest in wearing a truly hideous amount of makeup to school and making other girls’ lives hell.
- Teachers began to see me as troublesome, giving me detention for minor things.
- Groping my breasts became almost a sport among the boys at school.
- A campaign of complete lechery from one of my teachers distressed me sufficiently for me to bunk off lessons.
- As I spent many break times hiding in the toilets, the girls would try to say helpful, supportive things. The general consensus was that I should be glad of having big breasts, that I should be happy with them because boys liked them, that perhaps I ought to chill out and enjoy the attention, and that putting up with groping was just the price I had to pay for being hot.
Of course, it wasn’t just at school that my mammary tissue provoked so much humiliation. As soon as my large breasts appeared, I had to deal with grown men leering at me, propositioning me and telling me what they wanted to do to me. I don’t honestly know if I looked much older than I really was, but as a general rule, I’d say that inviting a girl in school uniform to provide you with a “tit wank” isn’t really appropriate. And no, this was not an isolated incident.
I went from being able to walk down the street without even being looked at, to having strangers lean out of car windows to inform me that they would like to fuck my brains out.
Being a 36 H myself, I totally sympathize with Samara. I guess I was lucky that I didn’t develop until my mid-twenties. I was a B cup for most of my teens, and thankful to miss out on the abuse Samara was subjected to. There was a girl in middle school who developed big and early like Samara. I remember the other girls being bitchy to her, but the boys didn’t grope. Maybe because it was a small town and her Dad would have whipped any boy who harassed his baby and their fathers too!
One line from the story really hit me:
I fantasized that one day I would wake up and they would be gone, and I’d go back to being treated as a human being.
How awful, that anyone is made to feel less than human simply because of their appearance. I have to say this is just like racism, why don’t people see that?
Why anyone would think it is acceptable to tease/torture someone over something they have no control over is beyond me. I’ve never understood racism, or any discrimination like that. It isn’t like any of us get to choose who our parents are, where we’re born or when, much less what color our skin, hair, and eyes will be. Why do people judge each other on the things we have no control over instead of the things we do control, like how we treat others?
April 9th, 2009 at 10:59 pm
Its Human Nature to Judge. Its like a bad habit that Society cant get rid of. But. Most of the time if some one is jealous of somthing they dont have they’ll Criticisize.
I wouldnt take this as Far as Racism. Its just another Clique we need to get over. Like Emos, Jocks, crack heads. It wont change. My friend was having alot of trouble in her class. She would tease her non stop.
So one day she met her outside and told her how she felt and told her how bad of a person she is. I think this would work. Just tell them off and they’ll leave you alone. Its better then acting like your ignoring them. Because Sticks and stones break your bones but words will always stay with you.
May 16th, 2009 at 10:50 pm
IM REALY SORRY OTHER MEN TREAT YOU THIS WAY, I AM A GUY BUT I KNOW ITS WRONG TO TREAT WOMAN WITH RESPECT. I KNOW I DONT REALY HAVE TO, BUT I DO APOLOGIZE FOR WHOM EVER HAS OR EVER WILL AFEND YOU. ESPECIALY OTHER GUYS, SOME OF US CAN BE… PERVERTED. OTHER KNOW BETTER. LIKE ME, THIS REALY SHINES A LIGHT ON WHAT WOMAN LIKE YOU GO THREW ON A DAILY BASES.
-LUIS
June 20th, 2009 at 11:18 pm
I have a girlfriend, and she has 36E, she goes through a lot of trouble with guyz on the streets. I’ve known my girlfriend since we were in 5th grade. Her boobs also came in early at the age of 13. The boyz picked on her and told her to jump up and down for them. I had to stand up for her because she was afraid to. But man, we have really good butt sex! My girlfriend gives the best blowjobs!
June 20th, 2009 at 11:27 pm
If you ever want to have my 17 inch dick up your ass and in between your big tits, just let me know. My girlfriend wont mind! I want to cum all over your face and in your tight pussy! Since my cock is so big, i can cum faster,harder,and more then anyone youve ever seen! Just ask my girlfriend! One time i cummed all over the bed and the sheets were stuck to the bed! Ofcourse i made my GF give me a blowjob and i cummed all over her! Then i fucked her wet lussy with my huge throbing cock!
July 23rd, 2009 at 10:36 am
A lot of it has to do with younger men being so stupidly immature and filled with raging hormones; however, that doesn’t explain the lecherous behavior of random men on the street. Those men are simply trying to get laid by young and attractive ladies.
It is in human nature to judge based on looks, and everyone does it. The attractive get by with little other than leers and maybe a grope; whereas the not-so attractive (like me) get the opposite attention. While women can alter their figure to suit their whims, men cannot. I hate to trot out the same old tired line, but try being ugly for a while. You’ll be glad for your breasts.
The main lesson you have to learn is this: defend yourself. If some jerk grabs your boob, punch him in the throat and then kick him in the crotch while he’s stunned. You have rights to your body, you alone control who can or cannot touch you; likewise, you control how you are perceived by others. Depending on your job, you may wish to re-evaluate your clothing choices. There are plenty of women who choose provocative dress and reap the rewards of such. Even my wife has been known to remark that “If a woman goes out looking like that, she gets what she deserves.”
July 29th, 2009 at 12:15 am
The obnoxious male behaviour that you describe is intentionally obnoxious; it is what I call “dung-flinging monkey” behaviour because of it’s simian origins. If one is, as these people obviously are, a complete loser whose chances to touch a woman are essentially nil then your best reproductive strategy (and remember, all hard-wired sexual behaviour is *all* about reproduction) is to push other men out of the gene pool. You can do this by making sure that *any* interaction (let alone a sexual one) with any members of a gender that includes pigs such as yourself is the last thing on the mind of your victim.
None of these people are dumb enough to think that you’ll act favourably to “Hey baby - show us your tits!” after the first few decades of failure. That’s not their goal; it’s sabotaging the competition. I’ve had entire bars empty out onto the street to start hooting and hollering because a good-looking woman stops to ask me directions. Married men are especially diligent in this regard as they’ve already done their damage to the gene pool so their only strategy is to block anyone else’s chances.
From you comments I see that females also like to swat down competition: especially any with a notable secondary sexual feature.
I sometimes wonder if anyone ever spends any time pursuing or even learning about the opposite gender instead of just bashing their own.